At times, it is hard to navigate the world of dating and flirting because of a few reasons. Well, as a man, you may be confused in determining whether a girl is actually playing hard to get, whether she is shy or she is not interested in you at all. However, it is very important to note that two girls cannot be the same. They may express their interest differently, but here are some of the ways you’d know that a girl is not feeling you.
Her Body Language
If a potential girl turns back on you, it is a clear sign that she might be uncomfortable. If she ensures that there’s a barrier between you when you are talking, like holding her purse like a shield, chances are she is not interested in you. A girl who’s interested in you will feel secure when around you. When you notice such, it is good to walk away. Chances of you winning her are minimal. If she walks away whenever she sees you, that simply means that she’s avoiding you and you shouldn’t attempt to follow.
The aspect of eye contact
For some women, the behaviour of withdrawing eye contact may mean that they are shy. However, when you notice that a girl is looking around as if she wants to know her friends’ whereabouts, that means that she’s not feeling the conversation that you two are having. The best thing you should do at that particular point is to excuse yourself and walk away. However, this should be judged on the basis of several conversations. If this happens everytime you want to talk to her, then you should excuse yourself.
How she treats you when you’re in private unlike when you are in public
At times, you may notice that a girl is always flirty with you when you are in class or at work. When you meet her at a hotel or a pub and she acts differently in some way, that means that initially, she was flirting with you out of convenience. However, this is not always the case. Sometimes, probably the energy she has at work or class may fade when it’s only you and her sharing the same space. However, if you notice that she’s avoiding you when in private unlike when in public, then you should just let her be.
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